The Last Blog

This will be my official last blog. Creating these blogs has been fun. But unfortunately all good things, must come to an end. In the end nothing endures. This thought has got me thinking..how many people actually do end up with what they want in life? That is to say, what we want now may not be what we want in the end. Can we still be happy even though we may not of got what we hoped for? This is my question. How does one find true happiness? Is it by ending up with the one they love, by helping people in the most need, by pursuing a career they always wanted, or simply by being with their friends and families. I think most of us want it all. Everyone wants to end up with the one they love, give charity to those in need, be with their friends and family, and become what they've always wanted to be and what they went to college for. Our only obstacle is FEAR. Fear of rejection, fear of loosing that person, fear of not becoming anything, fear of pain.

So what is it that keeps us alive? Our Dreams. As long as we keep chasing those dreams we are still alive. We live our life only hoping for things to come out the way we want. Some are lucky enough to live that dream, while others aren't so lucky. For the ones that do not end up with the outcome they had dreamed for many of them wonder was it better to have lived through it, or to not experience it at all. Because for that part of their life they were happy. Was it better to have lived that happiness or not? It all depends on the way one looks at it. For some, yes it was worth it. Because in the end life is all about memories. We are alive when we are remembered.

Those who never gave up on their dreams and chased them long enough had the luxury to live their dream. whether it be to be with the one they love, to be with friends and family, to pursue a top paying career, or to make a mark in history. They will live their life they way they want. But, they can not control natural disasters. In end, they share the same fate as those who do not live their dream. They will loose the one they love, their friends, their career won't matter anymore, and so on. Life goes by so fast and before you know it, you'll be buying life insurance. In the end, your life was all a memory. Was it better to have made that memory or not? Of course it was because that it what life is about. If these people never chased their dream they would have never known what was in store for them. For those that gave up on their dream, find another one. Life is too short, so make the best of it. Life is beautiful, but beauty never lasts.